For your girls – on the deeper reasons for why we wear the hijaab 🙂
Subhanallah! I am in AWE!
You HAVE to read this account of a secondary school teacher who introduced Imam Hussain (as) to his school…
I really feel like cutting and pasting the whole thing (!), but will settle for this excerpt ;):
“Pupils swarmed towards me to let me know how much they loved the message and story and I felt a relief. Imam Hussain’s universal message would never let me down, why did I have any doubts? During the following weeks, pupils would walk past me in the corridors and chant ‘Hussain’ whilst clenching their fists in a celebratory manner of approval; they agreed with his values. Pupils would demand I include his story in the Religious Education curriculum. Pupils saw my wristbands with Imam Hussain’s name on them and asked where they could purchase one because they wanted to wear it too. They would stand with me during break-time and ask me more questions. Remember, this is not a Muslim school. We are talking about pupils from a conservative Muslim background as well as plenty of those who aren’t Muslim at all making these comments. It goes to show that Imam Hussain’s message transcends sects and appeals to those who love justice and human values.”
Read the full article here: http://themuslimvibe.com/faith/in-history/when-i-introduced-imam-hussain-to-my-school/
Muharram Gem 1:
Teach your children that the tears for Imam Husayn (as) have shafa – indeed, tears have been found to have different chemical content, depending on why they are being shed. Encourage them to wipe it on their faces and body, rather than wiping it away with a tissue.
From a majlis by a Zakira
Muharram Gem 2:
We need to put a love of the family of the Ahlul Bayt (as) into our children from a young age. If we do this, then it will help them when they’re older. Many teenagers have strayed, but through the love of Imam Husayn (as) have then come to the majalis of Muharram and returned to the right path – they started praying again, started fasting again, started wearing hijaab again, and so on…
Summarised from a seminar by Sheikh Abbas Jaffer
In the same vein: We need to put the love of Islam into our children BEFORE the law. When they are older, if they rebel against the law, it will be the love that will bring them back.
From a majlis by a Zakira
Muharram Gem 3:
Don’t underestimate the value of maatam and the symbol of what it stands for. Teach your children it’s importance and to take part, even if they don’t understand it yet.
In Russia, when it was difficult to openly practise Islam and commemorate, Muslims developed a softer, more secret way to do maatam rather than give it up altogether. They would slip their hand in between buttons and place it on the chest and whisper, and they taught their children to do the same.
Now, they are allowed to practise more freely and so do maatam normally again, but continue to do this secret maatam every now and then as a reminder…
Summarised from a lecture by Sheikh Abbas Jaffer
Muharram Gem 4:
We listen to lectures year in, year out – but the change in us in minimal. How can we change this so that the knowledge turns into action?
One suggestion is that we reflect on it and pull out a point of action even after the majlis. On the way home, why not start a family tradition on what each family member learned and one small thing they are going to try and change based on that?
Inshallah with little steps like that, big changes can happen 🙂
Inspired by a lecture by Sheikh Abbas Jaffer
I am going to veer from my usual posts with this one, but I believe it is valuable Inshallah.
Alhamdulillah, this page has Muslims of all sects, but inevitably every Muharram, those of the Sunni faith start ‘un’liking the page as the posts about Imam Husayn (as) and Kerbala begin.
But as this eloquent Khutba from last Friday by renowned Sunni scholar, Imam Khalid Latif at the Islamic Center of New York University shows, this event is not just one for Shias to commemorate. It is part of a MUSLIM history, and one with lessons for all.
Well worth a listen! We are ONE Ummah!
Excerpt: “I would encourage those of us who are not familiar with the tragedies that take place in the month of Muharram to take the time to go and understand and read our history. And that’s a Muslim history, not a Sunni or a Shia history. And to be able to relate and connect to every character that is there and to understand really, what are they made of? That they were able to move forward in the face of such atrocity, in the face of such challenge, and still say that the next world is more important than this one. That Allah is greater than all of this. That I will not compromise on my relationship with the Divine for anything of this dunya. It’s for you and I to take from, not from anybody else. It’s for you and I to reflect on, to make the individual decision. And it starts in being honest with yourself. Do you really believe that honesty drives you? Do you believe that integrity drives you?… I would encourage that you engage and take in some capacity. Push your comfort zone, and not for anybody else’s sake. Not to prove that you are somehow open-minded and you will be present in gatherings. Let this Muharram be about your heart… and yield to the idea that there is immense opportunity for gain and rejuvenation. We just have to decide whether it’s something we want to take for ourselves or not.”
Wow wow wow. If the Quran has such a positive effect on random strangers, imagine the effect on believers, who read it with meaning?!
And here’s another one:
He has no physical sight, yet his spiritual sight is a thing of beauty!
May Allah grant us all his faith…totally, totally inspiring.
And here are some more to inspire you!
How about this haafidh who is Autistic:
What a guy! Allah tells us to respect our elders, he is showing us one way to do that beautifully 🙂
Another Muslim hijaabi making us proud… And with such a profound message too!
She (and the H&M hijaabi model pictured below) are getting a lot of press.
Check this out:
“H&M has been largely applauded on social media, with one non-Muslim woman tweeting that she was “so happy that the gorgeous hijab-wearing fashionistas are being represented by a global brand”.
And another social media favourite has been hijab-wearing Great British Bake Off (GBBO) contestant Nadiya Hussain, who has galvanised public support with her brilliant flavours, expressiveness and warmth, with many canvassing for “Nadiya as Bake Off queen”.
Comments such as these indicate a much-needed shift in attitudes towards Muslim women. As a strongly politicised sign of religious identity, the hijab has been subject to a complex debate in recent years, with some viewing it as a feminist symbol of liberation, while others disdain it as a symbol of oppression. When I began to wear a headscarf, one friend split no hairs, telling me I was bending to “male enslavement”.
The hijab may have been dressed up by some as being “at odds with society”, but the fact that it is entering popular culture is in itself a celebration of the religious freedoms and universal values that Britain prides itself on.”
And of course, hijaabis making history in England’s Wimbledon: http://i100.independent.co.uk/article/meet-the-muslim-woman-making-history-at-wimbledon–by4zNoWDGx
We have no idea exactly HOW intricate those ant hills are – check this out! It’s like an underground city…Subhanallah!
And doesn’t Allah tell us: (Quran 6.38} There is no land animal nor a bird that flies with wings who are not nations like you. We didn’t miss a thing in the Book then to their Lord they will be gathered.
For those of you who maybe thinking about baby names 🙂
Also pertinent to those who shorten names to suit others around them… let’s own our names with pride!
“The process of choosing a name for a tiny human being is a tremendous, anxiety-inducing responsibility that can lead to marital spats, desperate crowdsourcing and late-night prayers for divine inspiration.
For Muslim parents, it carries a much heavier burden.
“Should we give our baby a less Muslim-y name?” I asked my wife after we did an awkward, late-night celebration dance upon seeing the “+” sign appear on the pregnancy test over a year and a half ago.
It wasn’t crazy to be entertaining the question. Why burden your kid with a profile-worthy name in addition to the problems he will likely inherit because of his skin color, ethnicity and religion?”
Read the full article here: http://www.nytimes.com/2015/10/04/opinion/sunday/for-muslim-americans-baby-aidan-or-baby-muhammad.html?_r=0